Posted on Tuesday 23 April 2019

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Young widow takes on marathon challenge in memory of his wife

Primrose Isterling, 25, died in 2017 after being diagnosed with colorectal cancer. Her husband, Tim Isterling, 27, is taking on the Virgin Money London Marathon on April 28 to fundraise for CLIC Sargent in her memory.

Tim, from Mansfield, met Primrose on a night out with friends in May 2016, just a few months before she was diagnosed with cancer.

Tim said: “It was three months into our relationship when Primrose felt unwell. She was having terrible stomach pains and they took her appendix out thinking it was that. But when Prim was still unwell post-surgery, further investigations revealed it was cancer.

“It was just a massive shock. By that point the cancer had spread through her lymphatic system, so we all focussed on the best chance to give her as long as possible to live.”

Primrose was diagnosed with Stage 4 colorectal cancer. She received the devastating news the cancer was terminal and the doctors gave her two years to live.

“It was like just watching a bombshell explode and everything we knew being torn apart. The first thing Prim and I did was to write a bucket list to make the most of the time she had left. Things like to go on holiday and go skiing were on the list.

“She thought about friends and her family and she wanted to do one thing with each of those people. It gave it her structure to her life and a purpose.”

Primrose started chemotherapy straight away to try and reduce the effect on the lymph nodes. She was treated on the Teenage Cancer Trust wards at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Birmingham and at the Clatterbridge Hospital in Wirral.

“Treatment was really hard with ups and downs. She had serious heart problems at one point and she went onto a cardiac unit and that was really scary. But even in that moment we had some joy and memories of me, her mum and sister sneaking in a McDonalds! That’s was our Prim, always smiling. That’s when I asked her mum if I could marry her.

“I knew the whole time we would lose Prim eventually, but I would have married her anyway. To give Prim that day and to spoil her was the right thing to do – to say I am by your side and you are what matters.”

Tim proposed to Primrose at hospital in Birmingham surrounded by both their families. He said it was a special moment for her and one he will never forget. They married a year after they first met, in 2017, in Primrose’s home village of Tremeirchion.

Tim said Primrose never let her diagnosis get in the way of achieving her bucket list.

“She managed to complete all but two things on the list. She lived in such a positive way. We lived not thinking ‘we won’t do that because you might die’. In a lot of ways I’m glad we did.”

She lived in such a positive way. We lived not thinking ‘we won’t do that because you might die’. In a lot of ways I’m glad we did.”

“She managed to complete all but two things on the list. She lived in such a positive way. We lived not thinking ‘we won’t do that because you might die’. In a lot of ways I’m glad we did.”

While Primrose was receiving treatment, she and her family were supported by a CLIC Sargent Social Worker who provided practical, emotional and financial support.

“Prim was offered financial support and counselling by CLIC Sargent and Rachael put us in touch with other charities that could help too. It would have been a lot harder without CLIC Sargent’s support.”

The young widow is now hoping to launch an initiative in Primrose’s honour to work locally in his home town to help improve the lives of young people and their families.

Tim decided to sign up to run the London Marathon in aid of CLIC Sargent in order to ‘give back and say thank you’.

“I’ve always watched the marathon and been a keen runner but I’m a bigger lad so it is a challenge! I just keep looking forward to the finish line and that moment, just thinking about doing it for Prim and going through 26.2 miles of hard work. I can’t wait for that moment.”

To sponsor and support Tim’s marathon challenge, visit


CLIC Sargent is the UK’s leading cancer charity for children and young people, and their families.

To find out more about how we help young people cope with the impact of cancer, please visit our what we do section. If you need support yourself please contact us using our online enquiry form or call 0300 330 0803. 

Notes to editors

For more information about CLIC Sargent please contact Jessica Rees at or call 0117 311 2659.

About cancer in children and young people

Today, 11 more children and young people in the UK will hear the devastating news that they have cancer. Treatment normally starts immediately, is often given many miles from home and can last for up to three years. Although survival rates are over 80%, cancer remains the single largest cause of death from disease in children and young people in the UK.

About CLIC Sargent

When cancer strikes young lives CLIC Sargent helps families limit the damage cancer causes beyond their health. CLIC Sargent is the UK’s leading charity for young cancer patients and their families. We provide specialist support, to help and guide each young cancer patient and their family. We will fight tirelessly for them, individually, locally and nationally. For more information, visit

Note to sub editors

Please note that the name ‘CLIC Sargent’ should not be abbreviated to CLIC, and that the word ‘CLIC’ should always appear in capitals, as above.

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