Body confidence and self-esteem
Cancer can have a big impact on the way you feel about yourself. Losing your hair, weight changes, scars, medical procedures and hearing your body being talked about in clinical terms can have a massive impact on how confident you feel in your own skin.
Cancer might have caused big changes to other aspects of your life too. Maybe it’s stopped you from continuing education, or work. Maybe you’ve had to become more reliant on your parents or partner for support. Maybe you’re finding that you can’t enjoy a social life in the same way you used to.
These changes can impact your self-esteem and make you feel uncomfortable in your own skin. Here’s what to remember while you go through this:
1. Treat yourself
It’s important to do the things that make you feel good.
This could mean arranging a pamper session or an outing with friends, doing a bit of gentle exercise, dedicating some time to gaming, relaxing with a good film, or just a peaceful soak in the tub.
2. Shake up your look
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to look good. Cancer can change your appearance but there are ways to take back control and own your new look.
You could experiment with makeup trends, try out a different hairstyle or wig, design a tattoo to enhance or hide a scar, or treat yourself to some skincare products. Make sure whatever you decide to do makes you feel empowered and confident.
3. Be kind to your mind
You can make changes to your appearance but the most important thing is to accept yourself as you are, inside and out.
This can be tricky if you think you don’t fit the mould the world says you should. But remember - there’s no such thing as ‘perfect’ – despite what it may look like on Snapchat and Instagram.
Find some positive sayings and mantras – stick them up somewhere handy and read them to yourself when you’re feeling low.
4. Invest in your wellbeing
Diet and exercise can make a big difference in how you feel on and after treatment. Be mindful of what you're putting in your body and try to eat a balanced diet with plenty of fruit and veg.
Exercising is a great way to build up your fitness and activities like yoga and meditation can help you to feel a bit brighter in yourself. If you're finishing treatment, you might want to get back into something you enjoyed before.
5. Ask for help!
We might sound like a broken record but there are so many people and organisations that can offer you support.
It’s particularly important if you’re feeling anxious or depressed to talk to someone. They might be able to help you make positive changes so you can feel better about yourself.
This list of organisations should help find the ones that are right for you.